Hey babes!

I thought I would make a post about how to engage with me, and interact in my spaces. Respecting consent and boundaries is always important, but especially in the NSFW space, so I've written mine down in a handy spot I can direct people to.

A bit about me: I am non-binary, my pronouns are they/them. I am queer (demi/pan) and a switch (sub lean). I'm an elder millennial (40's), and I am neurodivergent (AuDHD, tone indicators are always appreciated! https://toneindicators.carrd.co/#masterlist).

🔞 Do not interact with me if you are under the age of 18 🔞

• I am always open to respectful feedback/questions/comments/critiques/concerns about me or my content, so please feel free contact me!

Interacting

• Do not speak to me about weight loss. Do not speak to me about health as it relates to fat bodies, unless you are well educated on fat liberation/fat acceptance. I do not tolerate negative body talk in my spaces, even if you are just talking about yourself.
• Do not come into my spaces with racism/sexism/ableism/homophobia/transphobia/fat phobia or any other hateful bullshit. Just don't be a dick.
• If you have gotten off to my spicy content, it's totally fine to tell me! Seriously! I appreciate it, I like knowing that my work is making people feel good! And I don't mind if you flirt with me. As long as you don't act entitled to my time or content or expect anything more than "Thank you!" And as long as you understand that when/if I flirt back, it is not an invitation for anything more. I'm a content creator. I'm here to work, I'm not looking for a relationship. It's why I prefer flirting to be done on the timeline. And I will tell you if anything you say or do makes me uncomfortable.
• No unsolicited photos/vids/voice notes please!

Honorifics/Pet Names

• I am cool with most honorifics/pet names (regardless of gender), just do not call me Mommy.

Limits/Boundaries

• No degradation unless we are well established mutuals, and even then no physical degradation ever (see: no negative body talk). No breeding talk.
• No excrement talk (scat/piss etc.).
• No roleplay.

These rules may be added to or updated over time, as all of these things are subject to change.

Love, Ember 🩷